Our Goal
How do we unite all Non-Custodial Families? We think what happens many times here is that non-custodial mothers hate this page because of custodial fathers, and non-custodial fathers hate this page because of custodial mothers. Folks, our organization does not advocate for ANY system that maintains the custodial and non-custodial roles. We are not advocating for custodial fathers or mothers. Our belief is that system pits parents against each other and encourages fighting (to win) for 18 years which only hurts children. We think that there needs to be two systems, one where shared parenting is the norm and first thought of Judges. ONLY after one parent either REFUSES to follow shared parenting or is found unfit via EVIDENCE (not accusations) then move to the custodial vs non-custodial roles until the unfit parent resolves his/her issues and then move back to equally shared parenting. Our appeal to you is stop focusing on what the non-custodial/custodial parent has done and focus on the system that is in place to KEEP you fighting to make THEM rich and receive federal money.
NC Fathers believes that in NC there are 4.5 million voters who are associated with a non-custodial family. We believe these people come to us a fathers, paternal grandmothers, step-mothers, paternal aunts and uncles, and other friends and families of the paternal family all who see the frustration with the divisive family courts and social services agencies.
Can you imagine what would happen if 4.5 million voters emailed, FAXed, or called their local, state, and federal legislators and demanded changes to the courts so that you have equal access and parentage to your minor children?
These changes would be made at once. Judges and Legislators need you to keep their jobs.
If you are ready to make these changes, our GOAL is to build a massive email list of non-custodial families who we can then use to change legislation and policies of the courts.
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I’m a proud father that has always made sure my son comes first. Paid child support on time and for six years paid $125 more a month than required to while also carrying him on my insurance. In 2010 I had to have an emergency 6 bypass surgery. In 2011 I was down sized from my employer of 14 years. Carried COBRA for as long as I could while drawing unemployment and waiting for disability to come through. My ex took me to court four times in four months over petty stuff. Even emailed me that I was $5 short on my copay for Dr. visits. Finally in October of 2012 (Filed for disability in April 2011) I got disability. My son got dependent benefits of $794/month. He is 18 now and a HS Senior with all A’s. I no longer have to pay support. The kicker is she doesn’t give him any money and since I live about 30 miles from them when he comes to see me she won’t let him drive up unless I give him gas money. Does anyone know whether he’s entitled to get the benefits now that he’s 18? I’m going to file a complaint with Social Services and Social Security but not much confidence that it will do any good. I’m so helpless it looks like and our son is as tired of this as I am.
Philip, now that your son is 18 he is entitled to get the same benefits as anyone provided that he meets the criteria to get said benefits which is usually leaving their bank accounts at lightning pace because custodial parents are using social services as fathers these days.
He gets the benefits but it’s deposited in my ex’s bank account and he has no access to the funds unless she gives it to him. Which she doesn’t