NC Fathers Rights

Heidi Baur – Onslow County NC Social Services Director Alert

Director Heidi BaurThis article officially puts Heidi Baur, who is the Onslow County NC Social Services Director, on notice that NC Fathers has had enough with the insanity coming out of DSS in Jacksonville and Onslow County. As an organization that has a reach all over the State of NC, one would expect to discontent from citizens in the large metropolitan areas like Charlotte, Raleigh, and Greensboro. Yet, we consistently hear from people who have amazing things to say about Onslow County DSS and Child Protective Services and it is time for there to be a blog present for more and more of these families to discover and unite around an organization that demands Onslow County Representatives and Senators deal with these problems. If you have had dealing with Heidi Baur, child protective services, and other social services staff in Onslow County where you believe they have overstepped their legal bounds then we encourage you to join our MAILING LIST and make contact with us on FACEBOOK where you can collaborate with other who have likely experiences social services abuses and talk with us. If you are interested about or organization, both of the graphics below explains our GOALS. While this blog will be made available to Heidi Baur and DHHS staff who oversee social services policies and procedures in Raleigh, this blog is not asking the Director to do anything or change anything within her system because it is likely see will not agree with our article. This article exists solely for those families in Onslow County who have no voice against this agency when they get things wrong. Nothing is ever going to change until there is a unification of non-custodial families and families who have experienced illegal and abusive acts from the agency Heidi Baur administrates. Lastly, there is a comments section at the end of this article where anyone can tell their story to the public and Onslow County Social Services Director.
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Posts related to Heidi Baur – Onslow County Department of Social Services, Judge Sarah Seaton, Senator Harry Brown, Sheriff Ed Brown

If you read nothing else in this article, if you are a parent in North Carolina, you simply have to read THIS ARTICLE on the Family Court Pay Wall because it is affecting tens of thousands of NC non-custodial parents yearly.

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Onslow County NC Non-Custodial Families Support Group
While our organization is primarily a non-custodial family advocate for equally shared parenting where non-custodial parents, step-parents, and grandparents can utilize for our purpose, we do recognize that social services agencies not only in Onslow County, but all across North Carolina engages in conduct that is blatantly illegal and it is likely there is nobody there to help right those wrongs if your experience abuse.

Social Services Director Heidi Baur and Onslow County NC non-custodial families

If you are in a Onslow County NC non-custodial family, we encourage you to click on the red and blue graphic below to see if you identify with our exhaustive list of issues we have identified within the NC family courts that needs the attention of NC legislators. If you are tired of being marginalized and disenfranchised in your kids lives whether you are a non-custodial parent, step-parent, grandparent, or other member of the family, and you are tired of being seen important only because you are a payment provider and visitor to your children then this organization is for you.

Director Heidi Baur and CPS

Heidi Baur, Reform Onslow County Department of Social Services and Child Protective Services Now

In the matter of Shawn Schmidt, Heidi Baur has refused to put her agencies full resources into this non-custodial mother seeing her children in 2070+ days (As of May 2013).

NC Fathers has had contact from many non-custodial parents in Onslow County NC who tell us that social services routinely will tell one parent to do something that many times is against a court order, or there will be consequences. We are aware of no less than 7 cases where Child Protective Services staff told custodial parents to keep a child(ren) from an investigated non-custodial parent, but refused to file for a hearing to ask a Judge to make that order or even bring cases of abuse or neglect. In these matters, social services has elevated themselves to Judges in an obvious attempt to save money. However, as we have been told, Judges in Onslow County will likely overlook this illegality because it is in the best interest of a child. If this is how things work, why do we even need Judges?

While on the subject of “best interest of a child” this statement is often used by social services, Judges, and Legislators when they need society to overlook things because it is keeping children safe, even if these things are illegal or cross serious boundaries. These people love to used children as tools in order to do bad things. We see this over in the middle east all the time where terrorist will put kids in military institutions so that we can’t bomb them because they know it is very easy to say you hurt kids and killed kids.

NC Fathers is aware of pediatricians in Onslow County who have sent letters to Heidi Baur asking her to remove kids after they did investigations and found that parents were engaging in medical neglect.

NC Fathers is aware of Jason Shupe’s social services case that has been going on for over three years and defies any logic or professionalism and has likely traumatized thier children for many years.

Onslow County NC non-custodial families needs to understand that DSS cannot operate without a budget and a huge part of their budget comes from federal Title IV-D money through collection of child support. For every dollar collected in child support, Onslow County DSS gets back an equal match of money that is then used for this agencies programs, services, staff, and salaries. With this in mind, it is important to remember that social services has a tremendous incentive to see non-custodial families severed from their children so they pay greater child support which triggers more federal money.

Ask Director Heidi Baur what the average educational level of child protective services staff is and you will learn that they only have a 4 yr degree in any human services field, but they are allowed to make very serious decisions, many times clinical decision, that can have extreme consequences for families when biases, ideologies, a need to be a hero, or job justification is an issue. Most professionals that decide matters involving children and families have advanced degrees and professional associations that regulate what they can say and do. But not at social services. They have complete immunity and they have no oversight from regulatory organizations that can remove their licenses if they breach policies and procedures. Since Heidi Baur is solely responsible for her staff, then non-custodial families in Onslow County need to hold her accountable with your elected officials.

NC Fathers is very aware that there are MANY citizens in Onslow County NC who have experienced abuse at DSS, and if you contacted an attorney to stop that abuse, you likely found that none were willing to help because it is not popular to sue a state agency. If you don’t have money to hire a lawyer, DSS does not care, you will never see your children again. If you disagree with DSS, they do not care. If DSS wants to take your kids and adopt them out, or put them in foster care and you are unable to hire an attorney, they do not care. All they care about is staff having jobs, and federal and state money.

If you are not prepared to hold Heidi Baur accountable, and your elected officials accountable, then nobody is going to come to your rescue.

Child Support and Abuse and Bias

Heidi Baur and Onslow County NC non-custodial families

Onslow County NC non-custodial families represent a HUGE amount of voters that come from every racial and cultural background, educational level, political party, and socioeconomic background that if united would make up the single largest lobby group in NC. And you have good reason to unite. For going on 6 decades the family courts and social services agencies have found ways to monetize a breakdown in families through lawyers making money when parents fight for 18 years, social services staff taking kids to get federal and state money, along with keeping the adoption industry happy. Many people at Onslow County Social Services get involved to be hero’s, or to advance some political or gender ideology. Each day, all social services agencies do the most disgusting things to children and families for job justification and more money and it has to stop. But the only way this will stop is when families in this county unite and start having talks with Director Baur and their elected officials.

If you identify with this article on Director Heidi Baur of the Onslow County NC Department of Social Services, then we ask that you join our organization and extensively share this article on the many social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, Google+, and Linkedin. Additionally, we want to hear from military families at Camp Lejeune who identify with this article because we see an overwhelming number of military personnel who come to us and tell us unbelievable stories that turn out to be true after we get documentation. Heidi Baur can dismiss this article, but you can’t dismiss a unification of families who have experienced social services abuses, and we intend to do this.

If you agree with this article, please share it with Director Baur via her email or her office number: (910) 219-1847 /

One thing is for sure, we are going to make sure a Internet search of Director Baur is first and foremost in the search results as it is likely that when people experience heavy handedness with this agency they will search out the Director’s name. And, the writing is on the wall Director, you cannot keep dealing with Onslow County NC families like this agency has an not expect them to fight back.

Now, using the comment system below, what do you want your elected officials to know about Onslow County DSS and their Director?

Please Ask  <a href="">Director Heidi Baur</a> of the Onslow County Department of Social Services to reform her agency.

May 17, 2013 - Posted by | Uncategorized


  1. My Name is Jason Shupe. I have had to deal with Heidi Baur since she took over from the Former director Rodger. I will NEVER call them ma’am or sir. They do not deserve the title. I have Lost over 2 years of my children’s life due to the incompetency of DSS and CPS and the Kidnapping they did. And yes Heidi, It was kidnapping just ask the three Judge’s who called it that. I have never ever heard of someone paying child support to the state of North Carolina for kids me and their mother brought into this world. I will also say that finding Mr. Owens will help me so much with my multimillion dollar law suit against you and your cohorts that i have on tape and e-mail on the the harassment and abuse we went through. You and your agency and your wonderful lawyers Lee Britt and Richard Pennly are in for the fight for your lives. As for lazy Harry Brown I running for your job next year since you seem to have no love for your people or Family’s in eastern North Carolina. There is a god and Judgement day is coming. R/S Jason Shupe Jacksonville, North Carolina


    Comment by Jason Shupe | May 17, 2013 | Reply

    • Jason, my name is Tom Hadry, I have a situation here in Onslow County that is bizarre to say the least as I am sure yours is as well. I can share with you names of more people in the loop of this behavior in Onslow and it’s not just Heidi. I am not sure what information it is you have but I wouldn’t mind sharing what I know. It goes deeper and is broader. For instance just a week ago I discovered my ex-wife and child support here in Onslow were perpetrating a lie “together” to, get more money out of me, have me arrested b4 the expiration of a “bogus” dvpo against me, and I can only assume to make me look bad to the judges once again in the court, before the ex can try to renew the bogus domestic violence protective order which is keeping from my kids. Well I have that proof, as Raleigh was more than helpful. You really need to go over the heads of the people in this county. You can’t get anything done here. I met a lot of lawyers here and I like them and mean no disrespect to them as they have a job to do, but when it comes to the standing against crap like this they are scared. They are scared to go up against who and what we have to go up against. It would be political suicide for them. With all the things they say were just mistakes are more than just coincidence. If you have that many mistakes that repeat over and over, maybe more people in the system here need to be fired as they are truly incompetent at their jobs, or they have an agenda “entitlement IV-D” It disgusts me that these are people that go to church every Wednesday and Sunday, and claim to be Christians. Their behavior has scared me away from their religions and Churchs here in this county as I would never do to anybody what these self serving idiots have done to my children and I. You can email me at so we can share info. I am assuming the Mr. Owens you talk about is from Lets Talk. I met him as well and he has told me don’t give up and keep doing what I do.


      Comment by Thomas Hadry | May 18, 2013 | Reply

      • Hey Tom, I have talked to Raleigh and found out that the county is lying to them also. The state DSS and HHS are cowards also. I showed them the proof they were being lied to by these blood suckers. And yes it is that Mr. Owens and have nothing but good things to say about that man. I will get up with you on Monday boss.


        Comment by Jason Shupe | May 19, 2013

  2. Amen Jason you are so right, I have never meet a more corrupt system then them.. They do NOT care about the children in this county, they are only out for themselves.. If they cared about the children and this includes the GAL workers they would listen to what the children are saying… They have messed up my grand children’s heads so bad from their bull shit including the judges involved… These kids just want to be back home together with their siblings instead of split up and taken away from a family and community they’ve been in since birth!! You have biased GAL workers who will not even meet with one parent but will go on shopping trips with the other and also eat dinner at the other parents house and even take her own grandchild on visits there and is FRIENDS with the other parent… She refuses to listen to what the children tell her and goes by what the parent is saying… These kids have begged us to call DSS when they are here so that they can talk to them while the other parent is not around as they are afraid to talk in front of her!! We’ve told DSS this, do they listen NO they do not!! So tell me who is protecting these children?? Certainly NOT DSS nor their GAL worker… There mother has dispensed medicine to these children that was NOT prescribed for them and self diagnosed them and I might add she was wrong in her diagnoses.. WE took them to a doctor cause they were made to suffer for almost a week…Did they care NO!! They are suppose to be going to therapy, court order and when they were with us they went since judge placed them with their mother per DSS they have not went 1 time, nor have they been getting their medication the way they are suppose to.. They have mice peeing and pooping on their clothes, on the phone one night a mouse went right up and was eating on the pizza they were having for supper that night while they set and watched it… But, hey that is a safe environment per DSS, they went from having structure and schedules to doing whatever they want no rules, no one watches them…These kids beg us all the time to just come home that is all they want…. But DSS, GAL nor the judge cares what they want nor will they listen… So the ones who fight for them are their grandparents and their father who has raised them since birth and who had custody until DSS decided to walk in and cause nothing but problems for these children… The 2 youngest ones are still have problems with the havoc they caused and can NOT understand why their older siblings are not home with them, or when can we pick them up off the bus, they stand at the window everyday watching the road for them thinking that they will walk down it from school… They are also leary anymore of staying anywhere over night for fear they can not go home… DSS did this to my kids, and nothing will every change that all we can do is love them and try to make them feel safe and pray that they get over it and it doesn’t scar them for life..


    Comment by MR | May 17, 2013 | Reply

  3. Tom…be careful who you trust. I can assure you that Jason Shupe is a manipulator and a liar. Jason has some serious pedophile charges against him. Please call me at 910 548 1792. I will share everything I know about this sorry excuse for a man. ~ Patricia Throne


    Comment by Patricia Throne | June 5, 2013 | Reply

    • Patricia, we allowed this comment to go through after repeatedly preventing your slander and libelous comments to be posted . Mr. Shupe is at home with his children and it’s been three years. Let’s keep in mind that anyone in this country can have allegations brought upon them, it does not mean they are guilty regardless of what you and Heidi Baur think. Perhaps Mr. Shupe needs to file a lawsuit on you as well as the Onslow County Department of Social Services.


      Comment by stompkinsnc | July 20, 2013 | Reply

    • Patrica. As i have stated before you are in violation of court orders set in the Onslow County court house. This is a violation of the no contact and restraining order and I will be addressing the proper authorities once again. You can slander me all you want to. I have custody of my children after the courts dropped all charges against me and Christy. With that being said are you jealous that i would not take your advances? I know you have a thing for pedophiles since you admitted to me and many others of your relationship with one Shane Boggs who is a sex offender who is also back in prison for touching children. that is not slander it is fact. I believe i will look into the advice of people who are more level headed and mature and think about the law suit. Thank you and have a blessed day.


      Comment by Jason Shupe | July 20, 2013 | Reply

  4. Oh yea, I’m a Onslow County father who won a case against Onslow County DSS and can tell you after talking with Heidi Baur that it is my position this Woman does not like NMen much less Fathers. And, after reading this site I can see why now, they are a source of a lot of federal money for this agency. If you guys will keep on keeping a list of Fathers in the county who are wronged by this agency you should try a combined lawsuit.


    Comment by Sam | June 6, 2013 | Reply

    • How long did it take you sam? I am working on a list for all the men and women right now.


      Comment by Jason Shupe | June 17, 2013 | Reply

    • Ill join em.


      Comment by Eric Brantley | August 2, 2016 | Reply

  5. I am very disguisted with this agency as the mother of my child was being brought up on contempt charges and her only way out was to find a lie and get a protection order in which no one would listen so she called cps. For the last 45 days ive had supervised visitation and i currently have 8 notarized statements from the supervisors whom have no idea why i am having supervised visitation. I will be contacting ncis soon and maybe a newspaper


    Comment by scott | October 27, 2015 | Reply

  6. I want to know how DSS is telling my son in order to get his son back which he has had custody of since his son was 9 months old, he is now seven, my son cannot have a roommate who is a felon, which he would not do anyway. However they just placed my grandson with the non custodial mother , and her boyfriend is a felon. His last charge was this year. The boyfriend has had over 20 something charges over the last 10 or so years. Tell me how that works. I have left voice mails with Heidi Baur and she does not return them. I just sent her an email . Lets see where that gets me.


    Comment by pam desmarais | August 12, 2016 | Reply

    • Pam, we have been hearing about Heidi Baur from fathers for many years. She is very pro-mother and is of the mind that women should have custody and control of children and likely used child protective services to make sure that happens. What is happening to your son has been happening for many years in Onslow County DSS.


      Comment by stompkinsnc | August 14, 2016 | Reply

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