NC Fathers Rights

Brunswick County NC Courts and Judges – Non-Custodial Parent Questions and Answers

Brunswick County parentsThis page will act as a support group for Brunswick County NC non-custodial parents and family members to ask questions and receive answers from other non-custodial families in the county. Additionally, it will serve to allow us the opportunity to make Brunswick County specific announcements and alerts as it relates to the family and domestic courts and will be a launching pad for activism against legislators who refuse to fix many of the problems in our courts and their actions against you, a very large group of voters who can start making changes rather easily if you will resolve to become a thorn in the side of your state Representatives and Senators daily. Please keep in mind that NC Fathers is NOT a law firm, nor are there any lawyers in our group. Nothing said on these pages and comments should be taken as legal advice. Furthermore, if you come here asking for our help we have nothing to offer you and in many cases we are in the same boat as you. The only way to help yourself or family member is by emailing, calling, and demanding to speak with your State Representatives and Senators daily until they get tired of half the population in their county calling. We PROMISE you, non-custodial families make up half the population, after about the tenth call daily from different families and they are going to make changes.

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With this in mind, to use this page, scroll down to the comment section and leave a detailed comment about the problems you are having with the courts. However, PLEASE read the comments to see if someone else has already touched on an issue you came to tell us about and rather than telling us the same story, reply to the person who has a similar issue and make plans to daily get together and just annoy your elected officials to complete frustration until they make changes.

You are encouraged not to use your real name or identify any information that could lead to a Judge figuring out who you are and being vindictive against you. Additionally, we do not care if you choose not to leave a real email address as the information you present is all we need. However, if you are expecting a reply and you give us a fake email you will not get the reply notification, so please check back daily to see if we or other non-custodial family members have replied.

Rules for posting

  • Do not use your name, any member of your family, your child(ren), or the other party to your litigation in comments.
  • No threats against Judges, lawyers, Guardian Ad Litems, and DSS staff.
  • Do not make accusations against court staff. It is always best to use “In my opinion” and “I feel like” as this protects your right to free speech and keeps you out of hot water with defamation and slander.
  • We realize emotions run high, but please no cursing.
  • To leave information, please use the form below.



  1. My wife moved out 14 months ago & took my 3 year old son at the time with her. I was seeing him 2 days a week during the separation. All of a sudden 9 months later she accused me with the help of her therapist of sexual assault on my son. She was able to obtain a no contact exparte order & I have not seen my son in 6 months now. There is NO EVIDENCE. I have not been contacted or interviewed by law enforcement or child welfare yet we tried & failed to dissolve this order. I do not know where to turn. Any comments or help are welcome. Thank you


    Comment by Joe | July 31, 2015 | Reply

    • Joe,
      False allegations in just about every child custody / divorce action is just part of the game lawyers play to inflame the situation because it immediately puts you on the defensive and spending money, then money in your child custody action. You see examples of this everyday on social media when one groups is against another group they will go straight for the allegation card.

      It’s rather disgusting that Judges in Brunswick County allow this because they know you immediately lose a job, reputation, and don’t see your kids for many years all based on a simple allegation that requires no evidence or witnesses to start or any cost to the other parent. Look up in the article for the image we have for the family court game and read about preponderance of the evidence and how that is being used to fund a very large industry using domestic violence. There were a lot of people who made money off the allegation made by you.

      The bottom line is she wants to win, she makes an allegation, no evidence is needed to get the ball rolling and you put out of the house. It’s amazing the law enforcement hasn’t visited you because in these types of cases they are usually right there wanting to ask some very serious questions. If your attorney hasn’t squashed this just based on that fact, then he/she is just billing.


      Comment by stompkinsnc | August 1, 2015 | Reply

  2. My case just ended yesterday 3-18-16 after 398 days of me not seeing my son.I was accused of sexually molesting my then 3 year old son. I was never contacted by Law Enforcement. Yesterday, the Jude apologized to me in Open Court. He also stated that my wife coached my son with props. I will finally see my son next week. Shouldn’t the state of NC & the DA go after her? She committed perjury, she falsified & manufactured evidence. She even called 911. Don’t get me wrong I am happy it’s over but she should be prosecuted.I don’t want to just be another statistic. I want to make a stand. Thank you Joe


    Comment by Joseph Leone | March 19, 2016 | Reply

    • You are correct, she SHOULD be charged by she won’t because it’s not politically correct. Brunswick County is very liberal area, very pro-women and I would advice you to let it drop because if you push you may find yourself back in hot water.


      Comment by stompkinsnc | March 30, 2016 | Reply

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