Can You Help Me?

As our organization grows, we are getting flooded with Non-Custodial Fathers, Grandmothers, Step-Mothers, Aunts, Uncles, Brothers, etc…. all pleading with us to help. And God Knows, we would LOVE to help, but there are several things to keep in mind about our organization.

1) We are NOT a Law Firm, and we have NO Lawyers in our organization.

2) If this makes things worse in your situation, we are sorry, but what we are about to say is reality. There probably is NO help for you in the State of NC when it comes to the plethora of problems in the NC Family Court. We hear daily about Judges refusing to do this and that, allowing custodial mothers to do this and that, Guardian Ad Litems doing this and that, and even people’s own lawyers promising the sun and moon prior to getting retainer fees, then doing NOTHING. We hear daily about contempt cases being dropped on custodial mothers almost hourly now. We hear about extreme alienation of children from fathers, paternal grandmothers, aunts, uncles, etc… We hear the most awful stories and as much as it pains us, there is NOTHING we can do AT THIS TIME.

And here is why:

1) Lawyers have NO interest in equal shared parenting. In fact, they LOVE the current NC system. It is EXTREMELY lucrative for them to charge $5000 retainers every few months for 18 years.

2) Lawyers keep Judges Elected, in fact many Judges who leave the bench go back to practicing law. You really think they want to take bread out of their own mouth?

3) There are ULTRA powerful, well funded, and large lobby groups who have been around since the 60s that have millions of people motivated to call and pressure Legislators and Judges to further their cause, and remind them that election will be impossible unless they further their cause. And be sure their cause is being furthered in the NC Family Courts.

4) You may have heard of the NC Judicial Standards Commission, they are NOT AN OPTION FOR YOU.

5) The State of NC does NOT want you to have equal parentage and access to your kids. They NEED you paying child support, and the more the better. If you have equal parentage and access, you pay LESS child support which makes less federal funding available to critical state services. Click HERE to read more about the Social Security Act, Title IV, Part D, Section 485 and the funds YOU make available to NC by being alienated from your kids.

There are TOO many organizations deriving MONEY, POWER and VOTES from the current system.

There is ONLY ONE THING that is going to change this, and it is VERY EASY to do, but requires your HELP. The MOMENT that every single Non-Custodial Father, Paternal Grandmother, Step-Mother, Paternal Aunt, Paternal Uncle, Other Family Member, and Friends of These Families realize that they are a massive, overwhelmingly, and mammoth group of people given the divorce rate, and who can drive/reform legislation in one election cycle if UNITED, everything above will change. There is NO way Judges, Legislators, ANYONE can get elected without the people above. If you will make it a routine in your daily life to reach out to other Non-Custodial Family Members (they are EVERYWHERE in NC) and get them on our MAILING LIST, the minute we have 50,000-100,000 people who can email/call/FAX Politicians and Judges and tell them they WILL NOT be elected in the next election unless my/our kids are brought back into our lives, then you will be a part of the MONEY, POWER, and VOTES process that is driving the current system and your needs will be met.