NC Fathers Rights

Amanda Marcotte: How She And Feminism Are Hurting Mothers

Amanda MarcotteEvery time I read an article Amanda Marcotte writes on Feminism and Women, I have two thoughts. First, I appreciate her theories and articles because it helps to strengthen and embolden the hundreds of millions of Fathers and Women in paternal families who are finally standing up to the feminist controlled family courts and having a huge influence on politics as it relates to family law. Second, I have remorse for non-custodial Mothers who are probably unable to see that angry militant Women like Amanda Marcotte and their feminist hatred of Men is the driving force behind Men and paternal related females pushing so hard against Legislators and Judges who now have to consider the shear numbers of Men, their families, and their votes. Simply put, feminist like Amanda Marcotte are responsible for the steady increase in non-custodial Mothers because every time she writes an article LIKE THIS, it unites the Fathers Rights and Shared Parenting advocates.

Update: We though this was the perfect place to share this bit of information. It seems Melissa Etheridge and her spouse (female) are involved in a custody battle where both have not such nice things to say about each other, and much of it is allegations that each are abusive. Oh I so can’t wait until Gay Marriage is legal in all 50 states so that custody battles and domestic violence in these groups become more spotlighted. Women like Amanda Marcotte are going to have a hard time explaining the framework she has layed down when it starts happening in her own backyard.

Amanda Marcotte hates MenHere is the problem with the family courts, they do not care who the custodial parent is, or who the non-custodial parent is as long as there is a massive division that keeps parents fighting and making lawyers rich, as well as keeping the Title IV-D system pumping and maintaining Welfare. Ten years ago, it was easy to push Fathers to the outer limits of their kid’s lives because there was no serious Fathers Rights or Shared Parenting movement and Politicians/Judges did not have to worry about a backlash. But, there was a well funded and united feminist lobby that demanded Judges and Politicians maintain a Mother centered court. In 2013, Legislators and Judges have to contend with a very fast rising wave of very angry Fathers and Women in their families who have had enough, and Judges are now trying to keep both sides from eating them at election time. Thus, you are starting to see more Mothers become non-custodial as Judges try to shed their widespread bias within the courts and desperate attempts by angry feminist like Amanda Marcotte to save them by perpetuating the idea that all Men are natural child abusers, pedophiles, and domestic batterers while Women are always naturally protective Mothers.

Now, you have to keep in mind that Amanda Marcotte makes a living from Feminism and Women hating Men. On every one of her blogs, there is either a Donate button, advertising, or affiliate links that she drives money from when thousands of people visits her blogs. Many times, we have to wonder if her hate speech is just designed to send people clamoring to her sites to see what she has to say in the hopes they line her pockets with advertising money. Unfortunately, if this is the case, she needs to remember that Legislators and Judges are watching and realizing that her speeches are pushing more and more Men and Women into the political arena of family law and decrying the systematic bias we have experienced for a century. As a result, Judges are now forced to equalize the courts and you now see more non-custodial Mothers which is unfortunate because we believe that children are best served by having two parents and extended families, and gain in no way from hateful ideological feminist who have agendas.

Amanda Marcotte lies

Amanda Marcotte And The Silver Bullet Of Domestic Violence and Pedophilia

We believe that radical feminist like Amanda Marcotte realize that the family courts are quickly seeing that there is a massive eruption of Fathers Rights and Shared Parenting advocates hitting Legislators and Judges hard and they are desperately searching for a silver bullet that will cause Women to rise up in defiance of it. That silver bullet is either Domestic Violence, Child Abuse, or Pedophilia. In just about every speech you hear Amanda Marcotte and radical feminist give these days, it is filled with consistent rhetoric that Men are by nature domestic batterers, pedophiles, or child abusers while Women are always protective. Unfortunately for Ms. Marcotte, prior to the Internet age it was easy to perpetuate this misinformation, but it is not so easy in the digital information age as these series of pages clearly points out. Every time feminist attempts to exploit Domestic Violence by making it all Men’s fault, this site along with many others are going to continue to provide video and news reports that prove otherwise.

And, there are feminist who are starting to get educated on this unfortunate rhetoric that feminism continues to try and perpetuate.

Amanda Marcotte also needs to hear from the hundreds of millions of Mothers in this country who are sick of seeing a society that screams about absent Fathers push them aside when they attempt to not be absent. These Mothers also need to stand up to feminism and let them know that it is not always Men who are committing violence and abuse because you are seeing real world examples every day unlike Ms. Marcotte who lives in a agenda filled vacuum that helps her make a living by spinning ideas that her handlers want her recite.

Don’t believe me? Google her name and see what she has to say about your sons, brothers, husbands and fathers. After doing so, we recommend you either join your State’s Shared Parenting or Fathers Rights group because if you don’t, your Son’s and your life with your children are at serious risk with people like Amanda Marcotte in the world spinning an agenda that has gone from the once noble human equality movement to one of dominance and hate.

Non-Custodial Mothers, Amanda Marcotte, and Feminism

Non-Custodial Mothers have a serious dilemma. They have the choice to become angry militant man hating feminist like Amanda  Marcotte wants them to, or become angry at a system that simply refuses to create equal parents so that there are no more non-custodial parents. If these Mothers choose to take the first road, then you are doing nothing but settling for a life of anger, turmoil, and angst while you work to maintain a system that will only serve to harm your sons when they become Fathers, and yourself as a paternal grandmother later in life.

Women and Mothers in Family Law

If non-custodial Mothers choose the second road, then they can hope for a day when no Mother, Father, or Grandparent every has to spend a day alienated from their children so that a system of lawyers, politicians, and yes bloggers and professional feminist like Ms. Marcotte can make money and push agendas.

Amanda Marcotte does have some history in North Carolina. During the Duke Lacross Rape Matter, even after it was discovered that Crystal Mangum was lying about the entire incident and came out that she had made the entire thing up much to the amazement of the many feminist who were supporting her, Ms. Marcotte continued her stance that everyone who has defended the Duke Players are rape apologist. Keep in mind now that this is AFTER the truth came out. She is also quoted as saying:

“I’ve been sort of casually listening to CNN blaring throughout the waiting area and good fucking god is that channel pure evil. For awhile, I had to listen to how the poor dear lacrosse players at Duke are being persecuted just because they held someone down and fucked her against her will—not rape, of course, because the charges have been thrown out. Can’t a few white boys sexually assault a black woman anymore without people getting all wound up about it? So unfair.”

Again, this after the world learned that the rape allegations were made up, but this gives us a glimpse into Ms. Marcotte’s reality. She wants SO bad for Men to be bad so that Women can win, she will publicly admonish Men even when they are found to be good. And ladies, these are your sons we are talking about.

If non-custodial Mothers want to buy into the idea that all Men are natural abusers so that it helps lessen your pain and helps you unite around a support system, that is fine. But in doing so, you may as well look your son’s in the eye and tell him that just before you throw him under a bus. Remember, Amanda Marcotte does not have a Son or Man in her life, she can spin the wheels of hatred all day long hoping you buy into it and perpetuate feminist governance and hatred. She will never have to experience her Son hating her when he becomes a  Man, but you will.


September 2, 2013 - Posted by | Uncategorized


  1. Go Marcotte Go! Keep sending the Fathers Rights movement more and more supporters!


    Comment by Dennis | September 2, 2013 | Reply

    • Dennis, I am a non-custodial mother and I take this very serious so please stop encouraging. This article is right, these people are creating more groups fighting the courts and what we need is less fighting so we can all raise our children.


      Comment by Amber Lynn | September 2, 2013 | Reply

  2. I think you hit the nail on the head in showing that Amanda Marcotte has a financial incentive to say the things she says. Be it giving speeches, pushing the radical feminist agenda, or this all fathers are bad / all mothers are good mantra it is clear she is someone with a hate speech agenda. But I have to agree with Dennis, it is the likes of this Women why more and more Men and Women join the Fathers Rights movement. But what is more interesting is that the Women in paternal families seem to be screaming the most. So I say let her continue to talk and write.


    Comment by Kevin Hastings | September 4, 2013 | Reply

  3. I am a paternal grandmother who is ALL to happy to tell this feminist that she does not not represent me, or my family. I support my son who has custody of his child.


    Comment by Kelly | September 4, 2013 | Reply

  4. naturally protective mothers huh? How does she explain this patriarchy?

    And this from her ultra liberal friends at the huffington post which basically are nothing more than opportunist writing articles on every conceivable topic to draw readers to their website in hopes they click on the advertising. But yea, please do keep documenting female on male, female on female, and female on child violence. Feminist can’t win the ideological debate when it’s right there in video, pictures, and news print from their own liberal organizations. Sorry Amanda 😦


    Comment by Ricky D | September 4, 2013 | Reply

  5. I am new to this site, and a married father of two daughters. I was doing some research and came across this site. I support feminism because I have two daughters who I want to prosper equally in this world. But after reading the article you linked in the opening of this post I have to wonder if this woman is a real feminist or some break away faction type radical. I am certainly not an abuser and have a hard time believing all fathers are.


    Comment by David | September 5, 2013 | Reply

    • David, first welcome. The feminism you referenced here is early feminism that fought for human rights and equality for all. Modern feminism is a group of angry Women who have fractured from the movement as secularist, promoting the LGBT “new world order” type stuff. I support Amanda Marcotte’s secularism and advancing the LGBT community there is NOTHING wrong with that. The ONLY issue we have with her is her characterization that all fathers are natural abusers and any father who wants a life with his child after a divorce and participates in a child custody matter is a wife beater and pedophile.


      Comment by stompkinsnc | September 5, 2013 | Reply

  6. This hussie can kiss my A. My Son has custody of his son for very good reasons and I have two Dr’s report, social services reports, and law enforcement reports to prove it. You are not fooling me you hate Women.


    Comment by Elizabeth | September 5, 2013 | Reply

  7. I am a Sheriff’s Deputy here in NC and we were trained to always see the male as the aggressor in domestic violence situations and for years I went with this training until I became involved in the child custody courts at which point her lawyer tried to make me out to be a abuser. I now take a second look at all domestic violence scenes I respond too and know many others in law enforcement who do as well.


    Comment by Request To Stay anonymous because of my job | September 5, 2013 | Reply

    • You bring up a good point and have shown why more and more people are questioning this. You are not the only law enforcement officer who is in this organization who tells us the same thing about domestic violence. We know Judges who have Son’s who aren’t buying it anymore, Women in paternal families who see the reality. We have talked to legislators with Son’s who aren’t buying it. Feminism needs to get back to making sure Women have equality and not trying to hurt Men and Boys to make sure that Women have dominance. You can’t help but read Ms. Marcotte’s article and see the hate.


      Comment by stompkinsnc | September 5, 2013 | Reply

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