You don’t want to pay child support?
This is another question we get asked a lot!
Yes, we do want to pay child support. Our belief is the equal time we have with our children we will provide all the necessities children need, while their mothers/fathers provide when the children are with them.
We believe both parents should pay for educational, medical, and other costs like that.
Our issue is we are FORCED, by a Federal Agency to pay them so that they can divert the money to special programs and social services and we are told to keep our mouths shut and not ask for equal time with our kids.
In reality, child support payments do not come anywhere CLOSE to what it takes to raise a child(ren). We will be spending more money with our children when we have them 50% of the time. This is not about Money, this about about CONTROL by Federal Agencies, Judges, Legislators, and some Custodial Parents.
Children will have far greater opportunities and resources than any amount of child support payments can achieve when non-custodial families have EQUAL access to their children.
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Yes, I agree the very notion that a loving father has to be forced to take care of his children by federal mandate is absolutely ludacris.Contrary to the belief of some people many fathers have the paternal instinct to love and care for there children just as much as the mother. And to be treated like a defendant of some criminal act and have his lively hood attacked and mangled by some callous federal mandate that in essence does not care for the Child or the father ( or mother) is against the moral fabric of me. I would like to also add that Child Support is not just money. It is emotional, spiritual, mental and financial. I would like to see that some real leadership in teaching fathers and mothers to be good parents without being in a relationship and that both be treated with the dignity and respect of the title of parent.
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Absolutely. It’s nothing but a money maker for the government. Stealing is stealing law or no law. NC makes so much money off of this that they can pay a third party to do collections! Family courts here are a one sided joke, nothing more than weapon for most women. End all the freebies and watch divorce rates plummet and marriage rates rise. Anytime a politician uses children as the excuse some man, somewhere gets taken to the cleaners. I’m tired of this mess, rewarding vindictive, conniving, women like my ex while punishing guys like me. That worst part about it is the children suffer with no Father leading the way.
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No it’s not just the fathers that pay child support but mothers too. When you go to court its calculated with both incomes. Its for the Children.. When you don’t pay or just don’t care about your kids and never send them a birthday card or do anything. THAT HURTS THE CHILD.. Men need to be Men again NOT BABYS
Thank you,
Jess….
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I’m a custodial father, the other parent hasn’t attempted to see the child in 6 years, sent any cards, or payed child support. Good try at gender warfare regarding child support.
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