NC Fathers Rights

Sheriff Ed Brown and Onslow County NC Non-Custodial Families

Sheriff Ed BrownThis article is meant to enlighten Onslow County NC Sheriff Ed Brown and the tens of thousands of voting Non-Custodial Fathers, Step-Mothers, Paternal Grandmothers, Paternal Aunts and Uncles, other Family Members, and Friends of these families on issues we think affect these family members as it relates to arrest for Child Support Enforcement and Domestic Violence matters. NC Fathers will attempt to contact Sheriff Brown to get an official response back from him on this article and will post it here. NC Fathers is an organization of NC and Onslow County NC Non-Custodial Family members who want to reform the NC Family Courts, Social Services Agencies, and NC Sheriffs practices which we believe are biased and focused on revenue generation and politics. We ask that you review our GOAL, join our MAILING LIST, and extensively share this article on Sheriff Ed Brown with other voting Onslow County NC Non-Custodial families so they can make informed decisions at election time. Again, NC Fathers welcomes any rebuttal or comments on this article from Sheriff Ed Brown or Administrative staff at the Onslow County Sheriffs Department to address our 1800 daily readers.


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If you are a Onslow County non-custodial family member, please ask Sheriff Ed Brown and Senator Harry Bown to READ THIS.

In Sheriff Brown’s defense, we feel that the information we are about to present regarding Child Support Enforcement, he may very well not be aware of the dynamics which we believe keep the before mentioned family members alienated from their children, and that he is just following current law. However, after contacting the Sheriff, we ask that you keep his response in mind at the next election because these issues will NOT change until you assert your authority as voters.

Sheriff Ed Brown and Onslow County NC Families

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Sheriff Ed Brown, The Onslow County Sheriffs Department, and Child Support Enforcement

Our first message to Sheriff Ed Brown and readers is that despite what NC Legislators and Judges tell you, all men who are arrested for child support enforcement contempt violations are NOT purposeful fathers who REFUSE to support their children. Many are men who are UNABLE to financially support their children in this dangerous economy, may never have realized they fathered a child, or who went bankrupt spending $5000 retainers every few months in the historical biased Family Courts of Onslow County. We also want Sheriff Ed Brown to realize that Non-Custodial Fathers do NOT get extensive housing, medical, education, financial assistance at the Onslow County Department of Social Services and tax credits to make financial ends meet.

Additionally, we want Sheriff Ed Brown to know that like all big government programs, which child support enforcement is, there is always a second side to these legislative pieces than what is reported to the general public. In regards to child support enforcement, many advocates say that this program ONLY provides financial assistance to children from Non-Custodial Families. In reality, Child Support Enforcement is generating money for Welfare and other Low Income Assistance Programs that the State of NC desperately needs to keep these services running. NC Fathers believes that this need for money to fund social services is one of the main reasons why Onslow County NC Legislators and Judges NEED Non-Custodial Fathers, Step-Mothers, Paternal Aunts and Uncles, and other family members to spend fewer overnights with their children so that they are paying increased child support which makes money available for social services. In essence, supporting child support enforcement Sheriff Brown, is advocating for a system that keeps Onslow County NC Non-Custodial families from equal parentage and access to their children. And, that by blindly arresting these fathers, instead of lobbying for changes to the system, you are a part of the problem Sheriff. With respect to your OWN children Sheriff Brown, would you be more responsible as a active father who helps raise and nurture your children equally compared to your (ex)wife, or a father who is court ordered to only see your child 4 days a month and pay a big government agency for access to your children?

NC Fathers is sending the message to Sheriff Ed Brown that we believe Onslow County NC Families will be VERY ANGRY to learn that for EVERY one dollar collected in child support, the State of NC receives back TWO dollars via the Social Security Act, Title IV, Part D, Section 458 suspiciously entitled “INCENTIVE payments to States“. The INCENTIVE here Sheriff Brown is to collect as MUCH child support as possible, for greater social services funding. The only way this incentive can be realized is if these Onslow County NC Families are spending LESS time with their children.

To our readers, to include the OVERWHELMING numbers of voters who are Fathers, Grandmothers, Step-Moms, and Aunts/Uncles, the next time a Onslow County Sheriffs Department Deputy comes to your home and calls you a deadbeat, remember this data…. and remember Sheriff Ed Brown at election time. Are you ANGRY knowing that your arrest is helping to fund Welfare recipients kids while you are alienated from yours?

Sheriff Brown, with two parents EACH spending $5000 retainers on average of twice a year fighting in a system that pits two parents against each other to win something, then multiplying that times 18 years. Do you realize that figure alone would equal about 5 times the amount of money that could go to reported child support arrears in NC? Why are you not advocating for changes like this, instead of focusing on arresting kids parents?

Sheriff Ed Brown, The Onslow County Sheriffs Department, and Domestic Violence

No Doubt Sheriff Ed Brown will say that Domestic Violence in NC is an insidious problem that needs to be addressed, and we agree wholeheartedly. However, NC Fathers believes that Sheriff Brown, his deputies, and the NC Domestic Violence lobby that gives so much money at elections is only focused on MALE on FEMALE domestic violence DESPITE newer statistics that are finally recording and documenting FEMALE on MALE violence which show that women hit and use aggressive control just as much as men. But arresting WOMEN for these infractions does not make the female controlled Domestic Violence lobby happy does it Sheriff Brown?

NC Fathers also believes that Sheriff Ed Brown is WELL aware that because of the hot button political nature of Domestic Violence, hopeful custodial mothers will use FALSE allegations to bring them a LOT of attention and favor in future child custody matters. And, that Judges allow these FALSE allegations to proceed to conviction to appease the NC Domestic Violence lobby and their money which funds elections.

We also want Sheriff Ed Brown to remember that each time a Father/Male faces a FALSE claim of Domestic Violence, that he and EVERY FEMALE in the paternal family are alienated from their children IMMEDIATELY for up to a year.

Remember Sheriff Brown, Domestic Violence NEEDS male offenders and HIGH statistics to keep federal funding in place so that many people can further agendas and collect monthly salaries. Are you sure you are not a part of the system that helps CREATE full blown Domestic Violence statistics from clear FALSE claims Sheriff Brown?

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  1. Be also aware that Onslow County Child Support does little for the fathers whom have custody of their children. In this case Mom (name used loosely) has one child and Dad has the other….he took out the case to better manage support he pays mom for the child she has so she will continually call asking for MORE money than current support and to lower the amount as he has one child as well. Oh yeah they helped but acted as if they were representing her and not him. They have out confidential information to Mom about himself and the earnings of his current wife….which was not Mom’s business nor a factor in the case as well as were very rude to him in the whole process. They improperly listed child living with dad as living with mom and made DAD (remember he took out the case) prove the child was living with him! Mom was able secure food stamps and benefits in another state because said child is listed as living with her.


    Comment by ROBIN BRACISIEWICZ | February 22, 2012 | Reply

    • Hi Robin,
      Few of us know what it is like to be the “good one” with child support enforcement, so it is interesting to hear your story on one that does. I imagine enforcement practice and paperwork is centered around mom getting support and when there is a male in the system they freak out and do not know what to do.


      Comment by ncfathers | February 22, 2012 | Reply

  2. I was a victim of a violent crime here in Onslow in 2008 that was thwarted by Ed’s detectives. The suspects are my wife, her mother and an old friend. I will tell you, this thinking you are being killed is kinda horrifying. But Ed’s detectives assured me every thing would be OK. Well yes I am alive but now I haven’t seen my children for 2 years over this crap. And sporadically over the other 2.5 years. Yeah this has been going on for 4.5 years. Ed never took the evidence to the DA. My first son is really not dealing with this well. i can’t speak to him but have figured out ways of finding this crap out. Social services knew about this in the beginning it seemed but that soon went away. Now it has been made to look like I am the bad guy and Carol Jones Wilson is involved. All this time the guy my wife seduced to kill me is in FL now where she is with my kids. And she is with some other guy which puts her and my children in danger. And the incompetent boobs here made me look like the bad guy while this was going on. And the county commissioners here are to blame. One of the commissioners nephews was a church patron with my ex-wife. So you tell me now. And Ed’s guys for the longest time said something would be done, but Ed was just blowing smoke. Bunch of pacifiers to keep me quiet. Not anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    Comment by Tom Hadry | June 9, 2013 | Reply

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